The Importance of Marriage in Ancient Egypt
Ancient Egyptians were always keen on the idea of purity and chastity. If a young man became a man, he had to establish himself, he had to take a wife, and he had to avoid as much as possible illicit relationships, because these relationships would lead him to perdition.
Since the beginning of time, the ancient Egyptians were keen on the social encounter between male and female, and in the case of mutual affection, steps were taken to complete the marriage between male and female.
How Wives Were Chosen in Ancient Egypt?
Ancient documents show that a person establishes a family or establishes a house, and appears in ancient Egyptian texts with the word (ir ḥmt), which means that a man takes a wife or becomes a wife, and the young man was
When he reaches the age of youth, he must join a job or a certain job, and then if he finds a suitable girl, he must build a house for himself, or establish a room for himself within the family home.
Ancient documents showed us that the ancient Egyptians had something similar to courtship in current societies, so if a young man liked a girl, he had to send a relative, his mother or a family member to ask her to marry him, according to what appeared in papyri known as love songs papyri. He could also go directly to the girl's father's house and ask her to marry him.
When the boy met the girl's family, he would swear by all the gods and the power of his faith that this girl would be in his care, that he would never oppress her, never hurt her, never harm her, and that if she needed anything, he would provide everything she needed.
We don't know how long the engagement period was, whether it was a month or a year, we don't know for sure. For them, this period was considered a stage of acquaintance, a stage of study between the girl and the boy in order to get married and succeed in starting a family.
love in ancient Egypt
When a young man and a girl start to take the first steps to get married, they have to document the marriage and the ancient Egyptians had a document or some form of document that was written to prove the marriage, the first thing that was agreed upon was the social life between the girl and the boy and the economic status of the family.
From ancient Egyptian documents, we know that there are three main ways to write a marriage contract
There was a very important element in marriage, which was the gift that the husband gave to the bride on the wedding day, and this gift was a certain amount of jewelry or a certain amount of perfume. This amount or this gift was known in the ancient Egyptian language as (nktw) and was presented by the husband to the wife on the wedding day and was a gift that did not agree on a specific amount for its price or amount, it was according to the husband's ability.
Marriage contracts were drawn up inside the temples, and they were also drawn up in the state's records department. The records department recorded marriages and divorces and thus could determine the amount of taxes on each family, so the marriage contract had to be recorded by the village clerk or by the city clerk, and therefore the marriage contract had to be recorded by the village clerk or the city clerk.
This marriage was announced in the temple, and in the records department, and there must be witnesses, and from the documents we know that the minimum number of witnesses to the marriage contract was one individual, but many times the marriage contract was witnessed by five and six people, and sometimes 14 witnesses to a contract.
It was also part of the marriage preparations to agree on all the things required of the husband and wife in this period, the household foundation usually fell entirely on the husband, except for the bedroom and kitchen, the wife was responsible for their furniture.
Perfumes, ornaments, and toiletries referred to the husband's gift to the wife, and the ancient Egyptians favored these decorations such as kohl, perfume pots, hair paints and mirrors that were made of gold and made of silver and a flask that was made of precious stones and kept inside it creams and essential oils that were used in the hair.
The ancient Egyptians were keen to have a special box for toiletries, this box contains a number of drawers containing women's toiletries.
The ancient sages advised the husband that if you want to satisfy your wife, you should saturate her with decorations and perfumes, and saturate her with aromatic fat, because this aromatic fat is good for her and her body.
In the period leading up to the wedding, the ancient Egyptians performed a series of prayers, incantations and hymns aimed at removing the evil eye, because if this evil eye hit the wedding party and injured the husband or wife, it could lead to the loss and destruction of the entire ceremony, and the destruction of the marriage relationship.
On the wedding day, the groom wore the most luxurious clothes, usually white linen. The bride also wore the most luxurious clothes of white linen, and the bride's body was painted with perfumes and jewelry, and her hair was dyed with henna.
Most ancient Egyptian weddings usually started in the daytime and ended at sunset, and the wedding day started with a ceremony and a large feast, and on the wedding day, the marital home was prepared for the final state.
Weddings took place inside the house and a large party was held, this party had a men's part and a women's part.
At the party, the ladies gather with the singing and dancing girls, and the singers start singing happy songs to cheer up the newlyweds, and all the bride's friends, relatives, and neighbors are present at the party.
A large procession moves from the husband's house to the wife's house to take the wife to their new home, as well as processions carrying the furniture that will be placed inside the house, and the house is furnished to receive the newlyweds, and the house is prepared with readings, spells and incense to ward off any evil that may fall on the new family.
After the bride and groom move into their new home, married life begins. In ancient Egyptian, when a woman got married, she was called nbt pr, which means lady of the house.
When a woman settles in her home with her husband, the husband maintains the woman throughout the marriage, even if she has her own money, trade, or business, according to ancient Egyptian customs and traditions, ancient Egyptian law provided women with all their rights, and examples of these rights include.
1 - In ancient Egypt, when a woman married a man, unlike all Mediterranean and Ancient Eastern civilizations, she kept her own name, and her name did not change after marriage.
2 - A woman in ancient Egypt had her own money and property, and her husband could not take this money from her.
3 - Women in ancient Egypt were free to dispose of their property and inheritance.
4 - Ancient Egyptian law guaranteed a woman's right when writing contracts to preserve her money, so that the husband was obligated to spend on him and not to take from her money.
5 - If a young man proposed to the bride and gave her a gift, but the bride and the young man separated before the wedding, the gift was not returned to the young man.
6 - If the husband divorces the woman before the wedding. If the husband divorces the woman before the wedding, all the dowries given to the woman will not be returned to the husband but will be the right of the divorced wife. If the man had agreed on installment payments and divorced and did not pay the money he owed, this exposed him to legal accountability, punishment, and imprisonment.
For more about Women in Ancient Egypt
The Role of Women in Ancient Egypt: Rights, Art, and Religion
There was no polygamy in ancient Egypt, polygamy was allowed only for the king, and the king married four wives, called the first great royal wife and the second, third, and fourth royal wives, these four wives are legitimate wives and have legitimate offspring, but the king has the right to have a large number of slaves, and if she gives birth, her child is a legitimate child of the king, and therefore this legitimate child may take the throne if circumstances permit.
For ordinary individuals, if a man wants to remarry, there are only two cases in which a man is allowed to remarry.
1- The first case is to divorce the current wife, and divorce for a man is a very big economic disaster, because it has big legal consequences. Divorce cost the man half of his property.
Half of the man's property was considered compensation for the woman for the divorce, and if the man was unable to pay, he was subjected to imprisonment.
2- The second case of divorce or remarriage, if a man becomes a widower, he can remarry.
It is possible for a man to divorce his wife in certain cases, in which he does not lose his property, but only has to pay arrears or compensation, and these cases include.
In ancient Egypt, a wife could divorce herself and a woman could get engaged to herself.
If she married a man and there was no family harmony, she could divorce herself and retain her full rights. One of the most important rights that women retained was the house, so the house was the wife's right, especially if she had children.
If the husband did not have his own house, the father-in-law was responsible for preparing a house for the divorced woman to compensate her for the loss she suffered.
In some cases, ancient papyri showed that one of the reasons for divorce was the husband's failure to fulfill his pledge in the marriage contract to provide a private residence for the wife
One of the rights of women in ancient Egypt was that women had the right to inherit their property to the husband or not to inherit it to him and inherit it to the children only.
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| Women's Rights in Ancient Egypt |
How Were Marriage Contracts Made and Their Types in Ancient Egypt?
When a young man and a girl start to take the first steps to get married, they have to document the marriage and the ancient Egyptians had a document or some form of document that was written to prove the marriage, the first thing that was agreed upon was the social life between the girl and the boy and the economic status of the family.
From ancient Egyptian documents, we know that there are three main ways to write a marriage contract
- The first method is that the husband provides for the maintenance of the wife and provides her with a certain amount of jewelry or jewelry or whatever is agreed upon from the wife's adornment. What is equivalent in our current society is what is known as a wedding gift. He used to give this money, and this money became the wife's money, and he must give a gift to the wife This gift was agreed upon between the boy and the girl, and in most cases the gift that was given to the bride was a set of toiletries, perfumes and jewelry, and these tools were very important to the wife in her family life. Some ancient Egyptian documents that contain some marriage contracts showed that sometimes the husband would undertake to pay the wife monthly or annually a certain amount of gold or income, this amount with which the wife buys every year what she needs from decorative tools, perfumes and jewelry that she needs in her daily life.
- There was another way to finalize the marriage contract in ancient Egypt, which is in the event that the husband's financial capabilities are weak and cannot fully support the wife, so he agreed with the wife's family that the life between the husband and the wife is 50/50, and this 50/50 in which the husband guarantees a certain amount of money, and if the wife has a job, or has an inheritance, she guarantees another similar amount, and this is proven in the marriage contract.
- The third way in which the marriage contract was written was if the husband was not very wealthy financially, the wife would pay the entire cost of the marriage. The amount of the dowry was determined by the wife and recorded in the contract, and this dowry became a debt for the husband to pay throughout the marriage in installments until it was paid in full, and in some cases the repayment period reached more than 20 years.
Marital Home Preparation and Bride's Gifts in Ancient Egypt?
There was a very important element in marriage, which was the gift that the husband gave to the bride on the wedding day, and this gift was a certain amount of jewelry or a certain amount of perfume. This amount or this gift was known in the ancient Egyptian language as (nktw) and was presented by the husband to the wife on the wedding day and was a gift that did not agree on a specific amount for its price or amount, it was according to the husband's ability.
Marriage contracts were drawn up inside the temples, and they were also drawn up in the state's records department. The records department recorded marriages and divorces and thus could determine the amount of taxes on each family, so the marriage contract had to be recorded by the village clerk or by the city clerk, and therefore the marriage contract had to be recorded by the village clerk or the city clerk.
This marriage was announced in the temple, and in the records department, and there must be witnesses, and from the documents we know that the minimum number of witnesses to the marriage contract was one individual, but many times the marriage contract was witnessed by five and six people, and sometimes 14 witnesses to a contract.
It was also part of the marriage preparations to agree on all the things required of the husband and wife in this period, the household foundation usually fell entirely on the husband, except for the bedroom and kitchen, the wife was responsible for their furniture.
Perfumes, ornaments, and toiletries referred to the husband's gift to the wife, and the ancient Egyptians favored these decorations such as kohl, perfume pots, hair paints and mirrors that were made of gold and made of silver and a flask that was made of precious stones and kept inside it creams and essential oils that were used in the hair.
The ancient Egyptians were keen to have a special box for toiletries, this box contains a number of drawers containing women's toiletries.
The ancient sages advised the husband that if you want to satisfy your wife, you should saturate her with decorations and perfumes, and saturate her with aromatic fat, because this aromatic fat is good for her and her body.
In the period leading up to the wedding, the ancient Egyptians performed a series of prayers, incantations and hymns aimed at removing the evil eye, because if this evil eye hit the wedding party and injured the husband or wife, it could lead to the loss and destruction of the entire ceremony, and the destruction of the marriage relationship.
For more about marriage and divorce in other civilizations
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| Special box for toiletries |
The Rituals of the Wedding Day in Ancient Egypt?
On the wedding day, the groom wore the most luxurious clothes, usually white linen. The bride also wore the most luxurious clothes of white linen, and the bride's body was painted with perfumes and jewelry, and her hair was dyed with henna.
Most ancient Egyptian weddings usually started in the daytime and ended at sunset, and the wedding day started with a ceremony and a large feast, and on the wedding day, the marital home was prepared for the final state.
Weddings took place inside the house and a large party was held, this party had a men's part and a women's part.
At the party, the ladies gather with the singing and dancing girls, and the singers start singing happy songs to cheer up the newlyweds, and all the bride's friends, relatives, and neighbors are present at the party.
A large procession moves from the husband's house to the wife's house to take the wife to their new home, as well as processions carrying the furniture that will be placed inside the house, and the house is furnished to receive the newlyweds, and the house is prepared with readings, spells and incense to ward off any evil that may fall on the new family.
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| singing and dancing girls in wedding |
Women's Rights After Marriage in Ancient Egypt?
After the bride and groom move into their new home, married life begins. In ancient Egyptian, when a woman got married, she was called nbt pr, which means lady of the house.
When a woman settles in her home with her husband, the husband maintains the woman throughout the marriage, even if she has her own money, trade, or business, according to ancient Egyptian customs and traditions, ancient Egyptian law provided women with all their rights, and examples of these rights include.
1 - In ancient Egypt, when a woman married a man, unlike all Mediterranean and Ancient Eastern civilizations, she kept her own name, and her name did not change after marriage.
2 - A woman in ancient Egypt had her own money and property, and her husband could not take this money from her.
3 - Women in ancient Egypt were free to dispose of their property and inheritance.
4 - Ancient Egyptian law guaranteed a woman's right when writing contracts to preserve her money, so that the husband was obligated to spend on him and not to take from her money.
5 - If a young man proposed to the bride and gave her a gift, but the bride and the young man separated before the wedding, the gift was not returned to the young man.
6 - If the husband divorces the woman before the wedding. If the husband divorces the woman before the wedding, all the dowries given to the woman will not be returned to the husband but will be the right of the divorced wife. If the man had agreed on installment payments and divorced and did not pay the money he owed, this exposed him to legal accountability, punishment, and imprisonment.
For more about Women in Ancient Egypt
The Role of Women in Ancient Egypt: Rights, Art, and Religion
Was Polygamy Practiced in Ancient Egypt?
There was no polygamy in ancient Egypt, polygamy was allowed only for the king, and the king married four wives, called the first great royal wife and the second, third, and fourth royal wives, these four wives are legitimate wives and have legitimate offspring, but the king has the right to have a large number of slaves, and if she gives birth, her child is a legitimate child of the king, and therefore this legitimate child may take the throne if circumstances permit.
But the king has the right to have a large number of concubines, and if she gives birth, her child is a legitimate child of the king, and therefore this legitimate child can take the throne if circumstances permit. As for ordinary individuals.
The Rights of Divorced Women in Ancient Egypt
For ordinary individuals, if a man wants to remarry, there are only two cases in which a man is allowed to remarry.
1- The first case is to divorce the current wife, and divorce for a man is a very big economic disaster, because it has big legal consequences. Divorce cost the man half of his property.
Half of the man's property was considered compensation for the woman for the divorce, and if the man was unable to pay, he was subjected to imprisonment.
2- The second case of divorce or remarriage, if a man becomes a widower, he can remarry.
It is possible for a man to divorce his wife in certain cases, in which he does not lose his property, but only has to pay arrears or compensation, and these cases include.
- If the woman is childless, in the case of childlessness, the woman is divorced and takes only her buttocks.
- If a woman is accused of having an illicit relationship with a man, in this case the husband goes to court and explicitly accuses the wife of having an illicit relationship, and there are divorce documents found in ancient Egypt, in which a wife is accused of having an illicit relationship, which led to divorce.
In ancient Egypt, a wife could divorce herself and a woman could get engaged to herself.
If she married a man and there was no family harmony, she could divorce herself and retain her full rights. One of the most important rights that women retained was the house, so the house was the wife's right, especially if she had children.
If the husband did not have his own house, the father-in-law was responsible for preparing a house for the divorced woman to compensate her for the loss she suffered.
In some cases, ancient papyri showed that one of the reasons for divorce was the husband's failure to fulfill his pledge in the marriage contract to provide a private residence for the wife
Inheritance Rights of Women in Ancient Egypt
One of the rights of women in ancient Egypt was that women had the right to inherit their property to the husband or not to inherit it to him and inherit it to the children only.
The wife inherited the husband in the event of his death and the husband did not inherit the wife in the event of her death, but the money was usually returned to her children, or according to her will.
Written by H. Moses
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